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Max Franklin Hykes

December 2, 1961 ~ November 23, 2016 (age 54) 54 Years Old
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Message from Lew Delafield
August 24, 2017 3:37 PM

I will miss my annual lunches with Max on my way to the Carlisle car shows.
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A candle was lit by Lew Delafield on August 24, 2017 3:34 PM
Message from Jeff Key from fort Myers, FL
December 8, 2016 12:07 PM

To Mr. & Mrs. Hykes and Francine,

I am so sorry to hear about Max's death. It is just devastating to me and I wish I could have been there to help him. We had spoken several times this past year and he had kindly sent me some music to enjoy. He told me of some of his struggles with health, finance and employment. Our life's journeys took us far apart geographically and unfortunately I was not able to help. To say Max was a major spice and influence in my life would be an understatement. Although we enjoyed scouting, CB radios and science fair projects, music was the foundation to our relationship. His witty cynicism was always present. He spoke his mind always whether you liked it or not. I admired his creativity and go get it attitude back in those days. We covered Al Dimeola's "Mediterranean Sundance" for some high school concerts along with some side by side Christmas songs. I remember him getting Mr. Besecker to review Queen's "Bohemian Rhapsody" in 9th grade music class when the song was brand new. He gave some clothes that year when my parents house burned down, He attended my birthday parties as my preferred friend. My parents would allow me to invite one or two friends each year and Max was always head of the list. We started our first band together as it morphed through several transitions over 4 years. After high school, I visited him at Shepherd College several times and in our last real musical interaction, I referred him to the band Wrathchild that was hiring a guitarist. Our paths separated then and we lost track until last year when Max made the effort to call me. Although his cynical views had quadrupled, his warm heart was the same as ever. I truly miss him and feel badly for your family.
Message from Tresa (Paul) Day
December 7, 2016 7:36 AM

Dear Joyce and Peep', I am saddened and shocked to hear of Max passing. I have enjoyed our friendship and musical collaboration over the years, we even wrote a few songs together! When my son James was a little boy, he liked Max very much, they would tease each other. Max would always give James a Christmas present. Max was one of my favorite guitar players in the area, he had such a passion for music. I have a sizable collection of diverse music he recorded for me on CDs ! I would like to come visit you. You can contact me at 261-2328. Love and comfort to you and your family. Tresa
Message from Jeff and Lorie Myers Debo
December 4, 2016 11:18 PM

Our thoughts and prayers are with Max's family. He will be remembered.
Message from Roy Hamilton
December 4, 2016 6:06 PM

Max will be missed. Connections with others was always important to him. Too soon
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A candle was lit by Jeff Benedict on December 4, 2016 1:01 PM
Message from Jeff Benedict
December 4, 2016 12:59 PM

Max and I became friends in 1979. With Max, I remember shooting pool and throwing darts in my parents basement, weekend trips to the mall to buy new music and riding around in that old Dodge Dart. The fuel gauge consisted of the odometer and a notebook. One winter on the way back to my house, Max suddenly decided to test the Dart's mobility in a snow covered corn field. We made it about 20 yards until the ground caught up with the under carriage. Fortunately for us, my house was only a ½ mile walk. My sister's boyfriend Mike Orris, as luck would have it, was visiting and had a capable 4WD truck. While scolding us on our lack of sense and poor judgement, Mike braved the 8” of snow covering the soft ground in his truck and towed the Dart safely to the road... Just one of the fond memories of my adventures with Max. My sympathies to Max's family.
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A candle was lit by Mark Rice on December 4, 2016 1:10 AM
Message from John Renner
December 3, 2016 6:23 PM

Max and I were roommates at Shepherd College and recently reconnected. We talked several times and I always enjoyed remembering old times with him. We had similar interests in music and I truly enjoyed our discussions. He will be missed but I pray that your memories will ease your grief.
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A candle was lit by John Renner on December 3, 2016 6:15 PM
Message from Johnny Kaufman
December 3, 2016 3:18 PM

Max, you are deeply loved and deeply missed. I hope you knew the amount of people your life impacted. Fly high, my friend. Peace!
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A candle was lit by Johnny Kaufman on December 3, 2016 3:14 PM
Message from Cheryl Myers
December 3, 2016 9:33 AM

Deeply sorry for all of Max's friends and family. We had a lot of classes together in high school, but I didn't really get to know the real Max until a few years later. There was a period in the mid-80's where we were family. He was my ex-husband's best man. Along with my matron of honor Jodi and her husband (the other) Max, the five of us spent a lot of time together. He is truly one of a kind. His caustic wit and insight will be greatly missed along with his seemingly random pop-ins to our lives.
Message from Jeanne Farmer Kennedy
December 2, 2016 10:46 PM

Francine
I am sorry for your loss . May God give you comfort .
I was surprised a few years ago when I got a friend request from your little brother . It took me a while to figure out who he was . We have been keeping in touch from time to time mostly through comments on each others FB post . I was saddened to learn of Max's passing when I went to post a birthday wish to him .
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A candle was lit by Dawn McClain on December 2, 2016 9:15 PM
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A candle was lit by Kevin Keller on December 2, 2016 8:02 PM
Message from Kevin Keller
December 2, 2016 8:01 PM

I will always remember Max for his humor and musicianship. He came to my house and hung out for the day not too long ago. We got caught up on our lives and discussed music. I always loved his passion on a wide range of topics. He will be missed. We will meet again my friend.
Message from Keni Melby
December 2, 2016 7:14 PM

I have many fond memories with Max and will treasure them until the end. My condolences to his family. I still remember the first time I met him almost 30 years ago... He was funny in his own way and brutally honest! Cheers my friend... 🍻
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A candle was lit by Keni Melby on December 2, 2016 7:08 PM
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A candle was lit by Sue, Mike, and Andrew on December 2, 2016 5:20 PM
Message from Aaron Amore and Ann Paonessa
December 2, 2016 3:39 PM

Francine, John and Family - We are truly sorry for your loss. Our warmest wishes and deepest sympathy are with you. Love, Aaron and Ann
Message from Kevin Lewis
December 2, 2016 6:28 PM

Max was one of a kind and truly amazing musician I remember the first time I met Max he played with my cousin Bill ,Jeff Key & Scott Kagle I979 and left that band to take Tracey Peytons place in Wrathchild, I will always remember his kindness towards others and his passion and love of music.. Prayers to his family and all that had the honor of knowing Max Just very shocked to hear of this Heaven has another great guitarist for that band in the sky RIP Max
Message from Doug Miller
December 2, 2016 1:45 PM

I was saddened to hear of Max' passing and wanted to extend my condolences to the Hykes family. May you all find comfort, even as you grieve.

I bought a card to send to Francine but could not find an address, so I suppose this electronic greeting will have to do. Be well.
Message from Francine
December 4, 2016 11:47 PM

Wow Doug Hi. Thank you do much for your thoughts of condolence. My parents and I have been overwhelmed with such loving comments for Maxie. I always knew you as a great soul (literally and figuratively) so thanks for checking in. I hope you and yours are happy and well
Francine
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A candle was lit by Cally Spielman Apicella on December 2, 2016 9:12 AM
Message from Rick Probst
December 2, 2016 8:24 AM

I am still heartbroken over the new that Max is gone. I can't begin to express how sorry I am for Your loss. I work at a local radio station there and Max and I became good friends. I always had a blast with Maxie and believe to this day, that He is the best guitarist I have ever soon or known. I lost touch with Max after My own family got started and migrated to Atlanta. We reconnected through Facebook, and for that I am truly grateful. My deepest heartfelt prayers are with His family and pray that they will be comforted by The Holy Spirit's gentle whisper.
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A candle was lit by Kellie (Peck) Summers on December 2, 2016 12:14 AM
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A candle was lit by Lori Oberholzer on December 1, 2016 11:54 PM
Message from Lori (Haugh) Lashley
December 1, 2016 7:52 PM

Prayers for peace and comfort during this difficult time. Max's spirit will live on in all those he touched in his time here on this Earth.
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A candle was lit by Lori (Haugh) Lashley on December 1, 2016 7:48 PM
Message from Deborah Althouse Dubendorff
December 1, 2016 2:54 PM

I remember Max from high school and reconnected on Facebook. My condolences to his family. Class of '79 has lost a member way too young.
Message from Lori Walck
December 1, 2016 2:42 PM

Max will be sadly missed as a cousin, classmate, and a fellow musician. My condolences.
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A candle was lit by Cindy sheeder on December 1, 2016 2:26 PM
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A candle was lit by Suzi and Louie on December 1, 2016 2:12 PM
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A candle was lit by Candy Mowen GAHS Class of '79 on December 1, 2016 1:15 PM
Message from jason kabler
December 1, 2016 1:10 PM

Maxie was an amazing soul! He loved music more than almost anyone I know. I enjoyed our talks, and listening to his CD he gave me. He was always very supportive of me. He came out to see one of my shows every time I came up to Pennsylvania. Max will be truly missed.
Message from David Berry
December 1, 2016 12:41 PM

Max and I were friends.
He will always be in my heart.
Well wishes to family and friends.
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A candle was lit by David Berry on December 1, 2016 12:39 PM
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A candle was lit by Mark Grove on December 1, 2016 12:30 PM
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A candle was lit by Ann and Paddy Alter on November 30, 2016 6:36 PM
Message from Mrs Larry Shindle
November 29, 2016 8:12 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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A candle was lit by Marcia (Susie) Diehl, daughter of Bill Diehl on November 29, 2016 3:34 PM
Message from Eric Barnhart
November 27, 2016 6:34 PM

I am sending my deepest sympathies to the family and friends. This certainly was a shock to us all, and we will miss him very much.
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